I just read a dirty grammar joke about two co-eds, one a “Yankee” and the other a “Southern Belle.” I am not sure if people are aware of all the sociolinguistic implications of grammar, and the assumptions that we make about people depending on their use of grammar, whether we are aware of the assumptions we are making or not. People judge us by the way we speak regardless if they mean to or not, and that is one of the important reasons for mastering good grammar.
I have been a frequent lecturer for business classes, and have run intensive workshops on business writing and communication skills, written and oral. I often tell students, “Grammar is like a business suit for your words.” If you've been in the halls of any business college when it is presentation time, you will see rows of finely clad gentleman and ladies, wearing black suits and immaculate ties, ready to put their best face forward. I think grammar is a lot like a business suit—good grammar is effective at presenting an image, and it is something you can take on and off, just like a suit. You wouldn't put on a suit to go shoot some hoops with the boys, or go to the movies with the girls. Also, you don't have to worry about ending your sentences with a preposition on the ball court or concern yourself with that dangling modifier while you are watching The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe. If you are getting ready to go to a job interview or make a business presentation, then that suit is important to have on, because it projects a certain image of you. In the same way, that is the time to be sure that you are speaking in standard, grammatically correct English. You wouldn't forget to wear your suit—don't forget the suit for your words.
I am not saying this is a good thing, or a bad thing. I do think we shouldn't make assumptions about someone's ability or intelligence based solely on the way they speak, and certainly not on an accent. The world is, however, the way it is, and the fact we are judged on our ability to verbally form grammatically correct sentences is just a fact in the same way we are judged by what we wear (see how comfortable you are handing money to the bank teller who is wearing short athletic shorts, a soiled jersey, and no shoes). Just like you'd dress for success, be sure that you SPEAK FOR SUCCESS as well.
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